You have instructed him before. To me, I would only spank with a bare hand, I don't feel using instruments is necessary. Personally speaking I belive spanking is only for something they know is wrong and have been told several times no. Have something to say? King of the Hill — Every parent can tell you that disciplining their kids is hard work. What feelings of humiliation etc So no I couldn't do that.
I want to protect you from white people. For quick smacks when the child is endangering himself or others we use the hand. Anu tips on self-spanking? Just about every parent whooped their kids and nobody really thought twice about. And you can't beat it out of them. As early as my childhood memories take me, I was sent off to grab shoes, wooden spoons, and magazines. Your email address will not be published.
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Since God desires parents to raise their children to love and serve Him, He has given biblical mandates to be used when correcting and disciplining. So what are some practical spanking dos and don'ts of correcting a child's misbehavior? He was about three years old. They looked at me like I was crazy, and they basically had this idea of you need to go back to California. It's a total lack of trust that you're going to generate with that kind of behavior, and I would never ever support it being done in schools, primarily because the first thing you have to have - and if somebody's going to spank a child is you have to love that child. In this case, physical punishment was a risk factor that often worked in tandem with other parenting behaviours , such as being less likely to read with their children and less likely to explain why their behaviour was a problem. I'm curious as to what kind of physical aftercare that might help potential bruising or minor skin irritation that comes with spanking.